"God grant me the serenity
to accept the things which I cannot change, and the courage to change
the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference."
There is a world of
wisdom in this little prayer, wisdom which we will all do well to
acquire. There isn't any use trying to move an immovable object
and while we may expend a great deal of energy, we shall surely
end up a frustrated failure.
On the other hand, if
we assume that nothing can be done, we shall surely do nothing when
there is so much to do. The crux of the matter is having the wisdom
to know what to accept and what to change.
Paul is an excellent
example for us to follow in this. God had given him a thorn in the
flesh. Three times Paul asked God to remove it but God declared,
"My grace is sufficient for thee." Paul's attitude should be ours,
"Most gladly therefore will I rather glory in my infirmities." Paul
had a problem, a thorn in the flesh. He tried to get it removed
by asking God, but when God showed him His grace was sufficient,
Paul accepted it gladly.
When we have a problem,
an affliction, or an obstacle, let us do our best to solve, cure
or remove it, but when we find that it is immovable, let us learn
to accept it serenely and learn to live with it.
The only thing to do
with a wooden leg is learn to walk on it. There isn't any use moaning
over it and thinking about what might have been.
Let us learn to accept
life as God has given it to us and make the best of what we have.
We have the comfort and consolation of Paul that "God is faithful,
who will not suffer us to be tempted above that we are able; but
will with the temptation also make a way to escape, that we may
be able to bear it."
The problem is, we do
not always look for God's way of escape but instead trust in our
own strength. Consequently we are sometimes crushed by things that
we shouldn't have even been near.
We believe that "All
things work together for good to them that love God, to them who
are the called according to His purpose." If all things are working
together for our good, let us then accept each day as a challenge,
meeting our obstacles with courage and serenity, changing the things
that can be changed and accepting the things which cannot be changed.
With this attitude, we
can wake up each morning with the calm assurance of David who declared,
"This is the day which the Lord hath made; we will rejoice and be
glad in it." |